bless this place and all in it.
A fundamental human tendency is to want to advise or help or fix. This is a powerful and vital human need that has engendered survival and well-being in personal relationships and in community. But sometimes there is nothing that can be done, no advice to give, and there is no ‘fix.’ Instead of getting frustrated or angry or feeling helpless, sink into the receptivity of grace. All we can do is give the person or situation a kindly hug and reassurance of our presence and support. All we can do is bless what is–and also to be the blessing.