Why is the idea of judgment so deeply embedded in us? We constantly weigh, assess, measure, consider, and make a decision by judging what’s best. Judgment is a left brain, reasonable, this-makes-sense, this-is-right way of thinking. And it can be very helpful! We like it. It’s intelligent. It helps us to decide, make a move, and improve our lot. We’re able to make lists of pros and cons and come to solid conclusions. But it’s only when we combine our judgment skills with our intuition that our daily lives become happier. Instead of feeling that we exist in a sort of legal battle between the importance of our self, how we relate to others, and our place in the world, we relax. Instead of feeling outraged and helpless, we flow into the reality that we’re all connected, changing, growing, and in this together. We become discerning and imaginative, both. We become empowered rather than powerful. We become compassionate and helpful. We become the fullest expression of our expanding consciousness. Form an opinion on what you know to be good rather than on prejudice or ideology or your past. Surrender to that goodness—let it be the foundation of your judgment. Then show it, say it, and live your life as a truly great judge.
